Jon & Kate Plus a Tummy Tuck

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No matter what you think of them – whether you are a fan, used to be a fan, or have never seen the show and don’t know what all the fuss is about – they are a couple with a family and they are obviously undergoing some major changes if not completely falling apart.  So why do we need to talk about Kate’s tummy tuck?  I was reading a mom blog online and there were photos of Kate Gosselin on the beach with her kids (for prying eyes who want to see the results of her surgery, I assume).  The worst part?  They were interspersed with ads for diet supplements!  Why are we so hard on ourselves?  It’s wrong to stay fat.  It’s wrong to get too skinny.  It’s wrong to have plastic surgery.  Or is it?

I have had clients who have undergone plastic surgery.  One client had both a breast augmentation and tummy tuck a few years after having her son.  She had anorexic tendencies and I was sorrowed to hear she was planning the tummy tuck after seeing her go through the frustrations of a boob job. 

Another client, whom I currently see, is considering some mini-liposuction.  She works extremely hard, trains with me weekly (and has for 3 years) and exercises on her own an additional 4-5 times/week.  She takes great care of herself, takes pride in her appearance and, at 52, is considering having a plastic surgeon do what exercise, diet and genetics won’t do.  If she decides to have the procedure, I will support her decision.  I think she is a great candidate for plastic surgery as she is dedicated to taking care of her body and is at an age where she has the confidence and maturity to make the decision rationally and expect realistic results.

I would not have liposuction.  I would not have a boob job.  Someone suggested to me a few years ago (before I had my first kid) that I was a good candidate for early Botox because I had the beginnings of lines on my forehead.  I didn’t know whether to hit her or laugh.  Now I have some REAL beginnings of lines and I still can’t imagine having Botox.  But I would never judge a woman who does.  Several of my clients have Botox regularly.  It’s just not for me.  Or not yet, anyway…

The jury is still out on the tummy tuck.  I gained A LOT of weight with my first baby.  With my current pregnancy I’m on my way to a much saner weight gain and I expect to have no problem taking it off after delivering.  Postpartum weight loss (like every other kind of weight loss) is really just a combination of diligence and patience.  Plus it’s my job to lose the weight!  But the skin… the skin does not go away.  So maybe I won’t rule out a tummy tuck just yet.

Back to Kate Gosselin.  Why should we care that she has had a tummy tuck?  Besides, the woman has had 8 children – 6 of them in one shot!  Doesn’t this woman deserve a tummy tuck?  I think she deserves a congressional medal of honour.  If she’s willing to settle for $75,000 a week and a free tummy tuck, what do I care?

But people do care.  Maybe you care.  Do you care?  Is there something wrong with a woman having a tummy tuck?  Is a tummy tuck different from other types of plastic surgery; is it more forgivable?  Have you had plastic surgery?  Would you?